Why Do We Fall Apart?

Why Do We Fall Apart?

Time is the real player. Whatever that is happening today with you either good or bad, could just vanish entirely just like that. That’s why they say, “one should live in the moment.” Because what’s gonna happen after that moment has passed is entirely a different story. So, what’s your story? Are you in the best place of life right now? Or you feel like there is nothing in your control at all? Well, to be honest, we were never in control. When was the last time you felt that amazing energy inside you of being in control? You can’t remember, can you?

It’s this urge of being in control all the time put us in a place where we don’t want to be. We want to control everything. No, you shouldn’t cry! You are an adult, not a kid. You can’t just cry. But, I want to. Then just go to the fucking bathroom or wait until there is no one around. Right there, you lost the control and the other person who had no right to control you was given the power of control over you. You lost yourself and the other person just realized how good it feels to be in control.

I am not saying that you should leave yourself unchecked and do whatever you want to do. No, that’s not what I meant. Do whatever you want to do, but rationally. No, you aren’t allowed to murder your ex! But, you are allowed to cry whenever you feel like. You are allowed to quit the job if you don’t feel good about yourself. You are allowed to eat that cheesecake you saw last night in the bakery shop. You are allowed to be you. For a moment, leave everything in the back seat and drive wild. Just forget the idea of being in control and you will realize what it feels like to be in control, for real. It's never too late for anything. 

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